- Did coming through it improve your dating life?
- Did people who previously weren't interested in you or were mean to you interested now your hot stuff
- How did it improve your self image
- What advice would you give to others coming through or just out of the ugly duckling stage?
Most Helpful Girl
I wasn't very desired when I was in my teens but then I lost a lot of weight and a lot of people who wouldn't give me the time of day suddenly wanted to talk to me, hang out etc. I wouldn't give them any of my time - I don't need shallow asshats in my life.
I improved my self image by stopping caring what people think of me. I decided one day that was enough, if you don't like me that's your problem.
Advice would be to not let it change who you are, don't let fair weather friends replace your real ones and don't turn into a shallow prick just because you feel better about yourself.3