Would you approve a 19-years-old dating a 34-years-old?
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If they enjoy each other's company (hopefully they are sexually attracted to each other) I don't think that age gap will matter much. A 19 year old and 34 year old can have lots in common. Plus it's not necessary to be the same people. Some of the most enjoyable conversations I've had are with people in their 50s or older. I find a lot of people my age feel more awkward and even often self absorbed.
A lot of people against this are assuming negative stereotypes like you two can't have anything in common, he's "damaged" or you're a gold digger. Obviously you are individuals and those stereotypes may not apply. Plus they've only experienced their perspective and naturally they feel more defensive about a different opinion or lifestyle.2
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