okay so basically my parents aren't very affectionate and have very little to do with me. because of this I get attached to anyone who will so me a little bit of affection. my last serious boyfriend committed suicide and I'm not very close with any of my friends. I started talking to this guy a couple months ago and ended up really liking him. he's older but he said he wants to wait until I'm ready to have sex. then one day he stopped talking to me because he said he is too busy. a couple days ago me messaged me and we've been talking. now he is constantly talking about sex and saying he doesn't want a relationship he just wants friends with benefits. he only talks to me if I send him sexy photos or if I'm arranging a date to spend the night. I don't think I want just sex but he was so nice a couple months ago that I've gotten attached and I don't know if I want to lose him... I don't know if I can lose him. I don't know if I will just be able to end things and not go back to him. PLEASE help! should I just be his friend with benefits? or should I move on?
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First of all my dear, you have my condolences. (I just lost my Best friend in a suicide car crash maybe a week ago, anyway). I get where your coming from an I'd drop this guy like a sack of hot potatoes. Want to know why? Because you aren't anyone booty call! Got that? Your and individual with feelings too. Now what this guy is doing is being a dick, and a tiny one at that. One he's using you for sexy photos, which he probably shows his guy friends (which I don't know is true). Second he's basically stating, if you don't put out he's not going to be there! Do you really want something like him in your life? A moocher, who only wants sex. No you are worth much more than that. And things may not be looking up with your parents honey, put there are so much other folks in this world. You can find a support group who cares, Lord knows I have one. Remember this, You are Nobody's play thing. If that's how he gets off his rock I'd block his ass off of everything he has access to contact me to. He obviously wasn't the guy you thought he was, he just said that he'll wait those few months to, butter you up and when he saw you weren't putting out, he got desperate. I'm pretty sure your a independent girl inside, You don't need scum like him!