Her parents hated me.. friends hated me.. Never really had a full conversationw tih any of them. Anyways she was choosing me over her family and moving out with me at the start of my career. She was dropping everything for me.. her free college ride. She ended things got very emotional on both sides.. she said she would only do this if she was going to spend the rest of her life with someone. Said what happens if we don't work out I have nothing to go back to. I told her I'm not looking at do that.. I mean im 21 she's 18.. When she said it I asked do you want that comittment and she said no but I could easily see her lying about this so she didn't look stupid. She always claimed I didn't care or show her anything. Truth be told I was just afraid of opening up as I suspect she was. But if you were moving to the middle of no where with your boyfriend never speaking to your family again and dropping everyhting.. would you of expected at least talk or plans of marriage?
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Hmmm well first of all, I have never and I'm pretty sure will never drop everything for a guy, especially when I was still working on my education. Maybe now that I have a resume and education to build myself up and have started from scratch in different countries before, but not at 18!
Was she expecting a ring? Without a doubt, but you know what honey that's what happens in life you make plans and sometimes they work and sometimes they won't.
If you didn't care why did she bother to give up everything to be with you?
Bottom line she put all her eggs in your basket and you are ending things for a reason. You can't mess up your life and the path you're supposed to take because she made a mistake. That isn't fair to you or her and you'll both be unhappy in the end. Take it for what it is, a lesson in love and the game of life, and move on to a life that makes you happy0
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