It is really starting to bother me when I constantly hear men/women say that they are done with relationship and they're just gonna have sex with everybody or disregard another persons feelings just because they got hurt. News flash EVERYONE gets hurt. EVERYONE gets heart broken, thats part of life. What makes you a better person than the person that hurt you, is the simple fact that you get back out there and you learn to love again. With all of that being said, my question to you is, why is it so easy for you to give up on everything just as soon as you get hurt? Why would you quit and risk not meeting someone who could possibly be the right one for you?
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I don't believe people honestly are giving up. I think they just reach a point of frustration or sadness and declare it. Like when you're playing an impossible to win game and you're like F it I quit but then you go back and play again only this is a much more intricate and emotionally jarring game. The number of guys I've met that say they're done with dating and end up with a girlfriend in the next year or so is ridiculous. We just have low points and in the short term we think we mean it but in the long term we can see it for what it was just a little frustration in a long long life.1