Ok so my girlfriend who is pregnant (22 weeks) we just found out we are having a boy. We have been together for a long time now and have known each other for years also. But everything isn't as it seems sure we do argue and we do have our ups and downs but now it's gotten to the point I just can't handle it and can't see myself staying with her.
First in March when she found out she was pregnant rumours and a whole lot of things was circling around about her cheating on me which I still not over because I don't have the truth. Everyday is a fresh argument about something different. The connection isn't there as it once was. She doesn't show me affection anymore she always pushes me away from her or off her when I try cuddle up to her in bed. And most of the time she spends on her phone on Facebook.
I I just can't stay with her but at same time I really do love the girl I don't know what to do?
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Be honest with her and open up your feelings to her. You can't use this excuse that you're not sure iif she's cheating on u or not. I say you tell her, talk to her about it. Don't do what people in movies do: when they suspect sth is going on, they keep it to themselves till everything gets worse. Just go and talk to her about it! This is so annoying when people don't share their thoughts to their significant other. If you love her and trust her, then I don't see there's a problem in having a discussion about this. What could possibly go wrong? Nothing.
She's probably feeling stressed because of the pregnancy which is why she's pushing u away. And which is why u should NOT leave her. She might be treating u like this but she still needs u the most. She might not show it, but it's true.
You need to be honest with her. Asap.
And if you do eventually decide to leave her, you should make sure you don't love her anymore. Cuz if you still do, it's gon be hard for u to get over her.0