My girlfriend of a few months and I had the "who have you slept with" conversation about a week ago. She has been with more guys then I have--which bothers me--but said that she had a "slutty" time in her life when she was younger. Then a couple nights back just out of curiosity I asked her how many 1 night stands and when was the last one... she tells me that she had a one night stand (with a guy that she just met at the bar) a month prior to us meeting/dating... and she went on to say it was actually 2 nights in a row and they haven't spoken since. I get that people make mistakes and she says it was a big one for her... but I'm really having trouble moving on from this. Mainly because she said that her "slutty" time was earlier in life when in reality it was very recent. When I look forward to the future and starting a family I had never pictured my wife being someone that has been with a complete stranger...2 nights in a row... just before we met
Can someone please talk some sense into me or am I justified in feeling the way that I do?
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your girlfriend has the respect for you to be honest...
People want the truth but can't handle it, and YOU did ask her.
this is a great communication process you guys are going through (despit the subject here) but she's honest. and this is all before she met YOU. she's being honest... isn't that what you wanted. Its only if YOU can't handle the truth. Your feelings is how you feel yes it can be upsetting and there's nothing wrong with how you feel. Let her know exactly how you feel and ask her if she's loyal to you and when she answers YES than you asking her about her past love life should be the end of it. You can't keep beating someone up with questions and they tell you over and over. You have to be okay with that and move on. So long story short arn't you glad your girlfriend was honest and you didn't have to interrogate her with questions after someone else told you... good luck!! :D (I see it as a great stepping stone in your relationship is all so don't make it so hard on both of you)0