Because I did with my boyfriend and yes we did have sex but ended up staying with eachother for 5 years and now he's my fiance so what do you think... would you?
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No, I would not go to a guy's house on the first date.
For me, it's less about worrying about if he respects me but more about respecting and honoring myself and not making any choices that I will be disappointed in. I feel like I've come too far as a woman to do reckless, careless, slightly idiotic things that the future me won't thank me for. Not only that, but depending on how well I know him, he could be the type of guy who rapes a girl by assuming he's entitled for paying for her food. He could be a lunatic with a sex dungeon and torture tools. Pass.
Personally, guys who want me have to earn sex with good deeds, good nature, and consistent habits that prove they are not a sleazy, greedy, objectifying asshole.2