Paying for dates?

I think its okay for a guy pay on first and second date, i am a girl who likes to be able to pay for dates aswell but i am so bad saying it.. how can i say i want to pay without it being akward?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't care what anyone says, I think it's the gentlemen thing to do.

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What Guys Said 2

  • Ask him out. He'll assume you'll pay then. If he still attempts to pay just be assertive... slap his wallet on the floor. 😃

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  • Tell them you want to share the cost, just be straight up

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What Girls Said 3

  • Awkward = a situation is only ever awkward if YOU MAKE IT THAT WAY. It is a subjective response someone has when they feel ashamed or humiliated. Be confident in yourself and just grab the check and say ON ME. I think your date will appreciate this type of assertiveness.

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  • Just say I've got it...

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  • Just say casually "hey, can I pay for this?

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