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Yes, but most females of your age cannot see them.
The usual scene is that the girl asks that question, while behind her stand the good guys whom she friend zoned, because they were not as 'exciting' and 'fun' as the bad boy who just broke her heart.
Females emerge from fog of the bad-boy phase typically between the ages of 25 and 30.
Perhaps the decent men will still be around, perhaps not. I can assure you that by that stage a lot of them will be bitter, after years of being rejected and watching the females throw themselves crotch first as the oxygen thief bad boys. A man cannot watch that for a decade or more without forming an unflattering opinion of the cognitive process that occurs in the female mind.
Go to YouTube and look up the Sexodus. An increasing number of the good guys are giving up and walking away.0