Why am I not easily attracted to anyone anymore?

I remember I used to fall for guys easily and become obsessed with them which usually ended with me getting hurt. I'll be attracted to a guy initially but the smallest thing can turn me off and I don't feel a spark when I hang out with them. Now guys seem to be more into me than I am into them. I seem to not get attached and push them away because I feel uncomfortable. It feels like I can't develop strong feelings for guys anymore and I don't know why. I'm not into girls either.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • u... are more mature now?

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What Guys Said 4

  • guess coz u are afraid of being hurt?

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  • Those are exactly the reasons I am just not that into girls. I love their looks. I'm sexually attracted to a LOT of those of your gender. But fems make it so hard to get and for such different reasons that I have had it. No game for me, thanks. I'm real. I am starting to be convinced that the true reason for men loosing their sex drive is womens being difficult... and judgmental...& high & irrational expectations of men. And I'm not into guys fyi.

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  • Because you have experienced mental hurt so much that as a defense mechanism is to push guy away before you hurt them. My solution to you is find a really sweet guy and settle down with him.

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  • I think you just put your guard up now because you've been hurt by guys in the past

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What Girls Said 6

  • I totally understand you and that's me right there. I know I have trust issues and connecting with people emotionally is very hard for me. I blame it on my daddy/ mommy issues. They got a divorce when I was young and I thought it didn't affect me till now. bin your case, you just grew up and became more mature and probably find it hard to trust people

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  • Do you have trust issues towards guys?

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  • You have become mature and wise.

    Nothing wrong with that. :)

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  • He was being friendly with you and being nice to you.

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  • Different standards. You have grown up.

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  • He probably just did it for attention

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