I've been with this guy for over four years and I feel like we have a pretty good relationship except for the fact that I am always second best next to his twin brother. There are other things (he won't give me a cute nickname, etc.) for the most part when we go out he holds my hand sometimes and kisses me in public which is sweet but he seems to always be happier and more lively when he's with his brother or having a convo with him. He Openly told me that his brother will always be the most important person in his life and that their relationship tends to come first above others. Should I be concerned about this type of relationship they share? Is it normal for guys to pick their brothers over their girlfriends? I don't know if I should continue cause he doesn't seem like the type that wants to propose it have kids but he's really sweet to me, just his brothers company always seems to make him happier than mine.
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I have one older sister whom I'm very close with and it'll take a real special lady for me to put her at the same level as my sis. I've known my sister my whole life and she's always been there for me and is my best friend. She's not even my twin. All the twins I've known were super close, they basically have the same genes. I don't think there is a bond stronger than what twins can have. I really don't think he's out of bounds at all.1