My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times (with other girls) so he has a hard time trusting me. He will ask me if I thinks a guy is goodlooking, and I will reply honestly. If I says yes, he will flip out and then block me out of his life for hours until he will finally talk to me and I will have to fix everything. It's frusterating because he want's someone honest, so I'll give it to him and it ends up making the situation worse. It's not like I am attracted to the guys he points out, I'm attracted to him and I love him.
What really irritates is that he will see a girl and say that she is goodlooking. Like I don't care, there are nice looking people out there.
It's getting to the point where I am ready to be done with it. It's been going on for a year and it's becoming an everyday thing.
Being ATTRACTED to someone means you are drawn to them.
Thinking someone looks good, means you think they look nice.
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Okay. That's HIS insecurity that he needs to deal with before ever getting into another relationship. If he hasn't fully healed from the past, he shouldn't be bringing baggage into a new relationship because it's unfair to the individual i. e. you.
He's also hypocritical if he flips out when he asks you about a guy and yet talk about a girl being good-looking (though he may be doing it to "get back" at you for talking about the good looking guys even though he asked).
I would let him know that this behavior actually drives many people to cheat. I'm not CONDONING cheating, but this is a reason why many people cheat.1