I've been dating this guy for a month stuff is going great. So of course I have to try and unintentionally ruin it by being a crazy person.
I told him that I thought he was being secretive about what he was doing-and asked him if he was seeing other people and he said no, that he's just been thinking about stuff (he does have some big decisions to make) and I said ok I get it.
Last night we were chatting and he said I have to go "we're eating dinner". I asked "oh, who's we" meaning into a conversational way and he was like "me and my roommates" and then told me I was being controlling.
How can I get back from this? I don't want to chase him away.
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Want to know where you stand... lol it's only been a month? Just give him some space, I mean A LOT. I can understand wanting to know what he's doing and who he's doing it with for that matter, but this relationship is so fresh it's barely a relationship, you need to be more trusting in him, until he gives you a reason not to trust him, getting yourself something to keep you busy instead of worrying about everything he's doing in his free time is the best thing for you, that way he gets space and you're not over thinking.0