Every time I start liking someone, I have a hard time continuing to believe they like me or are interested. Everytime I hang out with them I leave feeling confident that the relationship is moving forward, but then just a few small things will happen that will shake my confidence and make me think they don't really like me. Like for instance when he doesn't ask for my number or message me, but then when we hang out he always pays attention and listens to me specifically and always makes an effort to sit next to me. Is this swaying confidence normal? Is there a way to stop thinking like this? Or does this mean he doesn't really like me?
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I have always had the exact same issue. I've finally found an answer. I don't know if this will help you, but I just tell myself to stop caring. Just stop worrying if he likes you are not. I just sort of turn off my emotions and let whatever happens, happen. I literally have to talk to myself and tell myself to stop caring.0