We had great dates, lots of texting (not soo much that it made it boring when we were on dates but enough to that it was obvious we were interested in each), plenty of hot make out sessions and public affection. Then out of nowhere... nothing. Just completely cut me off.
What gives and how do I best deal with this?
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I think she pulled always because she is confused about how she's feeling. I have a female friend that has a boyfriend. And she told me the feeling she had for me overwhelmed her so she pulled back for a month or so. Now keep in mind me and this girl has only met once but she like a that fact that I know her better than she kno herself, and she said I inspire her, and that she wishes her boyfriend was like me. But anyway after thinking I was friendzoned and had no chance I texted her one day and we talked about it. She admitted she had to step back because she has became emotionally attached to me. Even thought I know I have a chance with her I will not try and make her break up with him for me. I'll respect her relationship even thought it's a rough one. But now she's back to texting me like she use to but it's clear that her I grew on her. So just talk it out with your friend. Because hey you made out with her so you know she attracted to you. Just do what she wants you to do. Take control and go get what you want. They love a dormant man who takes what he wants. So do overthink things like I did. And just talk it out express yourself to her. Because I'm pretty sure she wants you to take initiative. So just go get what you want and I wish ou the best of luck with all this.0