So I have a few boys I talk to. They seem to like me sending hearts and flirting with me. I don't want to lead them on but I don't know how to say I just want to be friends , some of them I have been talking to them for quite a while and we are quite close friends
, I don't want to be seen as the girls that talks to everyone nor the girl that leads people along and has them as back up plans
I know it means I am friend zoning them and if you are on that end of the stick then it's not very nice but if you were in my shoes you would realise what I am thinking right now !!
Someone help please
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Something you have to realize is that 96% of those guys that are "your friends" are only in it to get a relationship out of you.
My girlfriend had a lot of guy friends herself. I came along and swooped her up. I told her what those guys are and she didn't believe. 2 months in and none of them spoke to her.
Guys have the ability to be cool with a girl and treat her as a friend, but the motivation leaves once your not available.0