When at the same time, you won't date someone unless he's hot and fit. So really what's the difference? Also your so focused on his job and income. Sounds gold digging if you ask me.
So how is it we are so visual? I'm an example of women are visual. I never get approached or asked out. No one flirts with me. So I just assume I'm ugly.
I wonder, is it a female thing to not admit they are shallow too? What makes women not want to take responsibility I do think women are very shallow, especially the hot ones. I'm right right?
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I don't agree because not all women are looking for a man with a built body and a fat wallet. Now over weight guys can be seen as living an unhealthy life style and that type of man isn't going to attract a woman who is living healthy. Of course woman find a man who carried himself well attractive. Personally for me the first thing I noticed about a man is his eyes. Personality accounts for more than you think when it comes to judging a man. If your gorgeous but open your mouth and jerk comes out, to me you're ugly. This is where talking on the phone or dating websites can become useful. People can see who other people are from the inside. They're character, opinions, humor and personality. If you're speaking from experience it sounds to me like you should be looking for woman more your age or older. Young girls tend to be superficial and inexperienced on what the true value of a man is.0
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