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A lying cheater that uses me.
Everything seemed to be going great, we actually moved in together after 2 years. But when he moved into my place, he started getting more distant. I wanted to make him comfortable, so I told him he can pick out a new couch and bed. My place wasn't overly girly to begin with, I had framed nerdy posters of things we both liked, and he really wanted to keep those even after we broke up!
Well after 6 months of no communication from him, and he acting cold, I did get suspicious. One day I found a receipt for a cafe, and he ordered like $50 worth of food and an older receipt from a month previous for a lot as well. I asked my friend who worked near there to look out for him, and a week later he went in with another girl.
I tried to not jump to conclusions. I did ask how his day was and if he did anything fun or interesting. He said no and went to play video games. This part I am a bit ashamed of, but he was taking thousands of dollars from my bank account (like a joint account but my money). I went on his computer and saw he was sending this other girl money every month. I also saw he was on dating websites.
Upset, I confronted him. He said he loved me, but wants more than one woman. When we started getting serious, I explained I'm monogamous and he said "Yeah, me too". Sometimes people lie to get what they want and don't care about the consequences. He did other things, but I won't get into that.
TL;DR he was a lying cheater that used me., both physically and financially.0
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