Hi, school is ending soon and there is this girl i really want to ask on a date but we never talk though she is in one of my classes. I catch her staring at me a lot somedays, but then she ignores me so that confused me. Now that school is going to end i dont know what to do! I like her so much, but im so nervous around her i can barely look in her direction put aside at her. Would it be weird to ask her to hang out if we dont really know each other? I dont have time to have conversations with her and get closer and i really dont want to go through the summer wondering about how she's doing. I really dont want to make her feel uncomfortable either because im dont have many friends and really shy and she is one of the most beautiful and chased after girl at school, though a bit shy as well. Do you think she will be embarrased by me? What should i do? Any suggestions would be apprieciated.
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First, introduce yourself to her if you already haven't. Honestly, everyone is up for new friends and with practice this will be second nature. I was the same exact way in high school. I never talked much with guys at all! Just know that if it turns out awkward it is okay. There are plenty of fish in the sea and if she really liked you then she would respond in a positive manner, no matter how awkward. Like I said it comes with practice and if you never practice an intro then you'll never be a flirting machine like me ;)
What I like to do is get in a random conversation with a group of 2 or 3 people that you kind of know and have her included in the conversation. This can be about the class lesson, the football team, or may be just a new movie that came out that you really wanna go watch. Like I said this takes practice! If you act confident even tho you may not be at the time then you will externally be seen as confident.
It all comes with the positive mindset. If you tell yourself every day that you will eventually have her then I promise that new and inventive ways will pop into your head on how to get her attentions !0