There's this guy in my friend circle who's a huge jerk. We don't ever get along (mainly because he's always so rude to me!) and I tend to avoid him. However he always finds ways to mock me or just generally annoy me.
The other day he said that I'm "undateable". What he said next deeply offended me, he said : "your personality is wack... so most guys would just bang you. Girls like you are only good for that anyway. I wouldn't be able to put up with your stuck up attitude"
Needless to say I was pissed off and told him to quit the bs. He laughed and told me to "calm down", I just got up and left. I have been thinking about that comment ever since. My personality isn't as bad as he implies, as I said he just seems to have a problem with me...
Is it possible that some girls are only good for sex but not relationships? And why did he say that if I'm not even like that?
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This guy did exactly what he set out to do: cut you deep and leave you questioning if he is right. Guys like him are the types of people who find power and confidence in cutting other people down. He's clearly a - pardon my French - fucking piece of shit, so it goes to show you how much you should value his opinion. He's likely only saying this because he isn't worth more than two pennies and a fuck for a girl looking to rebound, and he knows that he has a shitty personality himself. If anything, he's just self-projecting on you and you don't have to listen to him.2