I'm dating a guy for 5 years whom I can't marry... because of cast problems... so we had decided to leave when times right.. right when we started to date.
Their is this another guy whom I knw through my family.. my mom is happy if I date him and he belongs to my cast.. and I do like this guy.. I want to end up with him.. and he has been texting me.. asking me out.. he's not aware that I'm dating someone.
I spoke to my boyfriend and told him about the other guy and that I wanted to end up with that guy. He said he's not ready to leave me now. He wants some more time since he has moved to a new place and he's homesick... nor do I want to leave him like that..
And I dnt know what to do I'm stuck in between my past and present
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This is a problem where custom and family prevents a person from following their own destiny. There is no reason on earth why you have to accept the custom that your culture dictates. You are an adult by every measure there is, and you have the right to do what YOU feel is right for YOU. Your parents did not bring a child into this world to control it. In this age of globalisation, there is nothing to prevent marriage between two people of any colour, crede, or whatever.
Do what pleases you. You will still be on this world when parents, sadly, are gone to the next. You have but one life. Don't waste it.
Take care, stay safe!!0