On my way home from school today I was thinking to myself when thinking I wish I had a girlfriend, all these other questions going on in my head what such as is there that I can offer a girl right now? I have a job, a car and ambition to get a career. I then started thinking okay I am approx 40-50lbs overweight since my ideal weight should be 160 (even though I feel 170 would be alright and currently weight 210, I do exercise but have been sidelined for the last month due to school and a broken finger. I like playing basketball for my cardio and lift a little weights here and there), I am not necessarily the most motivated person, nor am I the best dressed (I always stick to what I know since I am afraid of experimenting and really messing up in terms of what/what not to put together when dressing), afraid girls will see that I am a dud since I love staying home. I do go out and play and some gigs not to often, that has slowed down (I play saxophone and dabble with other instruments) I love computers cars, anime and trying to learn a different language (beginner/intermediate Spanish, started trying to learn japanese) and when I do go out I go by myself namely to the movies, since I don't have friends and find it kind of weird to try and go out and talk to random people (since I am always thinking wondering if they are wondering why I am there). So it is like most of the girls I tend to talk to love to party the whole club scene and I have a hard time even trying to pick things to talk about and where to go on a date. I know that the weight thing can be changed (but what about from now till then), because it is not going to be overnight for me to lose this and there are a lot of bad habits that I have to try and break as well, and we all know the truth girls like fit guys (and shoot I don't blame them either, becuase if you can get them get them).
I need advice pretty much on how to actually speak to girls and trying to get a girlfriend?
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guess u'd b ok if u lose da weight u need... and try find some gal who's not into partyin n stuff like dat better0