I am suppose to meet this guy this weekend, whom I meet on Match. com. He seems legit and I checked him out on various sites. So I know he is a real person, but I am nervous about meeting this guy. I am worried he will be a weirdo, etc but nothing he has done has given me that impression. (We are meeting in a public place so it is safe)
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Yes, I've had online dates and a REAL blind date.
I don't count online dates as blind dates because you still get to text, talk or see their photos. Blind dates are completely blind, no text, no call, nothing.
The online dates I've had were OK. I've only been on four and I was catfished once by a chick who posted up old photos of herself when she was thin. She's a big girl now. But whatever, you can either be a complete douche about it or you can go with the flow, I went with the flow. Yes, she lied, but whatever. Take it in stride and don't let it ruin the night, you're already there aren't you? So that's my advice if the dude turns out to be something different than what you expect, don't get weird about it. Have fun but don't go on that second date if it means that much to you.
As for Blind Dates I've only been on one. Friend hooked me up with his niece-in-law. I mean, I texted her where to meet and when but that was it. No pics, no talking, nothing. She was cute, ended up dating her for like six months before the usual relationship problems, then it ended.
So, don't get weirded out is what I'm saying. Meet in a public place and let that be the end of it. Don't look too far into it or anything. Take it for what it is.0
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