I mean if a guy is always offering to pay for you at dinners or movies or events or whatever else that cost money. would that make you appreciate and love him for his generosity. Or would it make you feel guilty because he's always paying and you're not? Or make you feel like you're not an equal partner in a relationship and you're kind of using him for money? If you did feel that way would you rather the cost of things always be split equally all the time. Or sometimes he does something for you and sometimes you do something for him?
- I would like it if a guy pays for me all the time.Vote A
- I would feel guilty of a guy pays me on time.Vote B
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I like the first dates the guy pay everything. Because without you knowing we pay for the date too, at least me and my friends, we are the kind that we have a date we buy new clothes, or go to make manicure and pedicure, and hair style and all that stuff. so yes, first dates he should pay (In my situation). When a guy ask to pay the half is the best way to make me dont date him again.
In a relationship it depends a lot too on who they are, because if he is the owner of his own bussiness and she is just a student or something i think yes, would be nice if he pay, and even more if he is usued to expensive places.
But i do thing that she can show appreciationg buying gifts to him or inviting to nice places when she can. (it can work when a woman is the owner and the guy a student)
and when they are equals i think they can share bills. Like in cinema you pay the movie i pay the dinner. Or you pay dinner this weekend I pay next week.
I've been in both case and I think it all depends on situation.0