I've been seeing this guy for a few months and on our first date he paid for everything. He also spent quite a fair amount of money on taxis to come see me and another date after that where he paid for the taxi, entertainment and food and I insisted on at least paying for some drinks since he didn't let me pay the taxi. We recently went out to eat in this quite pricey restaurant, and as he had paid for the taxi there and back for us, I happily decided to pay for our meal. He asked me if I was crazy in a joking manner and went on to say that he had never seen a girl pay for a date before and he didn't know of any girl that did. So, do you guys mind if the girl gets the check or does it make you guys feel patronized or whatever?
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A girl that gets the bill instead of thinking she doesn't have to pay cause she's a girl and girls don't pay for dates, is wifey material. Just the intention is enough, it shows us that you're not just dating us to get free stuff, that you don't believe the man has to do everything, that you're independent, and that you don't give a fuck what society says.2