I am a Quiet/ shy guy who is quite reserved. I have quite a number of guy friends, but are friends with a few girls.
That's coz I don't really talk to girls as I am shy and nervous around them.
However RANDOM girls approach me and tease me playfully and seek my attention, when I am walking in public or going to College. The thing is girls tease me only when they are in a group.
When a girl individually talks to me, she acts quiet, nervous and un-comfortable. It seems like they are scared of me.
When I ask their number sometimes, they give an excuse like , " I don't have a phone".
Also they all make me jealous by mentioning their boyfriends or some other guy the like... It really makes me hurt and frustrated.
So why girls are giving attention to a random guy like me, if they hate me for no reason? I am just minding my own business and then I get hurt in the end.
What do girls think of me... I am confused !!
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My personal experience (as a quiet person) is a lot of people dislike quiet people and make negative assumptions about them. But I think it's worse for a quiet guy. Women don't want guys to be quiet, shy or nervous; they want you to be confident. People are more understanding of a girl being quiet, unless she's pretty (then they think she's stuck up)... but for a lot of people, it's not normal for a guy to be quiet and never talk to girls.
Also, people are quicker to stereotype a quiet guy as being dangerous because many crazy killers have been described in the media as quiet or loners. When you're quiet, people pay attention to you and, if you're a guy, either worry you're crazy or they just want to try and force you to talk (both quiet guys and quiet girls experience this) because they can't understand someone being so quiet or because they think you're hiding something or your quietness makes them curious.1