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Ultimately, you get the fate you choose for yourself. A lot of people on the internet are in a kind of aloof dream world, where as long as one stays distant, one need not worry about exposing oneself to harm. There are people, as you might be discovering, who are happy to continue this charade for years, even decades, lest they have to acknowledge the reality of their situation. This person might be happy to give you the run around, and not be totally aware that she's doing any harm.
Thus you have to protect and set certain boundaries for yourself. Not saying you need be inflexible, but if she's not willing to say, Skype after a certain period of time, say a few months, then you could argue that she's not really serious about the relationship. You might think the ball is in her court, but as I say, it's really in yours. What are you happy to accept and continue with?0