Basically she had smoked in the past but was not when we started dating, but has slowely start vaping again. I admit, this does not smell or taste nearly as bad, but it still makes me insanely uncomfortable to see her smoking. I knew she smoked with friends on a night out, but she started doing it while with me last night and I basically just said I don't mind if she does it, just not in front of me as I really don't like smoking, the habit itself. She basically got really weird and said I was being unreasonable, but it just makes me feel super uncomfortable around her smoking and it is a huge turn off, she got upset I would not kiss her really either. (as I said, it was not anywhere close to ciggerates, but still odd.) Now she says she feels super unsexy to me and I said no, (though smoking is a huge turn off to me). I just feel like both our problems would be solved if she just did not smoke around me, is that really so unreasonable?
Am I asking too much with my girlfriend to not smoke in front of me?
What Girls Said 4
I don't find it unreasonable at all, I used to smoke (now I'm a non-smoker again, yay!) and I really understand that it's a relieving habit but I can also understand that some people don't like it since it really smells bad and by not smoking around them when these people ask me not to do so it's just a sign of showing respect.0
I dont think asking her to stop doing it around you is unreasonable, as she can do it at other times, however I think it was a bit unreasonable of you not to kiss her0
I don't find it unreasonable in this case.0
No it isn't unreasonable. But why did you date a girl who smokes to begin with?0
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