I indirectly say no to a kiss from a guy I'm interested in. I wasn't ready and so I just kept saying "I don't know" when he asked for it. I guess he took that as a complete rejection from me, because it's been days now and he won't even talk to me. I don't know if I should let this be or try to get back at him and say I just wasn't ready for any kisses.
Well, what I really want to know is: saying no to a kiss really make guys think they got rejected? I wanna know!
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Yes rejection is rejection. I'm guessing that as many girls do- you are doing everything you can to not let him know you like him so he tries to kiss you, you turn him down, now he figures you don't like him. You got to show him CLEARLY you like him- then he will understand that you aren't ready for a kiss but really like him and he (if he's not a player) will stick around and wait until your ready.
It's really quite simple. Girls biggest, most common mistake is not showing they like a guy clearly so that he can see it. The best guys loose intrest real fast if a girl shows no intrest. Doesn't matter how attractive he finds her or how much he likes her. Only the desperate will stick around a girl who shows little intrest.1