Girls, what are some cute gestures on a first date? Some things to avoid?
What Girls Said 11
It depends on what you two are doing but lets say you're walking around and its a little windy, you can brush her hair out of her face, thats always nice. You can compliment her on the little things; how you like her shoes or how pretty her smile is. Just do subtle, genuine things you think she would appreciate.
Something to avoid would be being too in her face, just let everything flow and give her personal space. (:1
I was very impressed when my boyfriend opened the car door for me as a lot of men don't. It shows you're more of a gentleman and we woman like that. Avoid eating garlic or anything that would stink your breath (or have mints with you for after dinner). Don't expect sex on the first date and dress appropriately. No ripped clothes or anything sloppy. When she talks, listen to her and ask her questions about herself to show you are interested in the things she says. U can also kindly suggest you'll pay for the bill and she can take it the next time. Avoid talking about other girls/past relationships and at the end of the night if you really like her, compliment her and give her a kiss either on the cheek or the lips but I wouldn't recommend tongue on a first date. It might come off too desperate. When you get home and the date is over, text her that you had a great time. When my boyfriend did that it really put a smile on my face knowing he enjoyed spending time with me as well.0
Great gestures are to be gentlemen like, what mean is to open the door for her, pull out her chair, if you pick her up don't honk the horn, and walk up her to her door when dropping her off. Things to avoid is to not try to get too personal, don't show way too much interest but just enough, don't just talk about yourself, don't be rude and let her say what she wants to say. Make sure that you just treat her the way you would want her to treat you. Some flitting is good too.0
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Being nice, opening doors, pulling out chairs, holding her hand, and being yourself.
Things to avoid
- Not listening to her
- Being rude
- Pulling out your phone while she's talking
- Leave her to pay the bill
Same for females0
Appropriate clothes, appearance, free of odors
Range of topics interesting to both to spark conversation
Choice of venues is mine
Dancing is an option
The main thing that would attract me would be whether he's being natural, being himself, and paying attention to me. I wouldn't want him to be focused on himself, or on what gestures he was going to make next.1
Just be very chivalrous, compliment her, maybe bring her some flowers, ask her questions about herself but make sure you talk at least a little bit about yourself. Try to be funny but don't tell any jokes that could be taken as racist or sexist on a first date. You need to know her more to say that stuff0
Put your hand on her lower back. I like thst1
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