I just started dating this guy about a month ago, but we've been talking for nearly two. We've mostly been going out to lunch and/or dinner because we both have busy schedules. Sometimes he will come see me at work during my break, too.
He mostly seems interested in just spending time with me, but I'm a little worried that he might get bored. He never suggests doing anything else - he's always like "We can do whatever you want to." I really don't mind going some place in town because he has to drive a good 45 minutes to see me anyway and I don't want to be running him all over the place. He is just always saying how much he wants to spend time with me.
I guess what I'm asking is whether or not I should be coming up with fun date ideas? I just literally enjoy eating and then sitting around talking to him, but I don't know. Help!
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Whenever you want. Giving a blowjob even on the first date won't make you look easy. If you show him that you want more than sex from the beginning, and if he wants the same as you, doing sexual things soon won't change his image of you. He knows you find him attractive that's why you're with him, so he knows that you want to do sexual things with him, and he also knows that you're just waiting because you don't wanna seem easy, which is something that won't happen, and if he thinks that, then it's a clear sign that you have to stop seeing him.0