so what should I do to impress him? what do you think he wants from me if he's spending this much money on me? would you say he's serious about me?
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not necessarily. some guys have a large amount of disosable income so a grand might not even be a lot to him. it sounds like he could be tricking off, I'm not saying he is, but when guys do that that doesn't mean they really care. its not the total amount of money spent, its the thought that counts and the intent behind it. now if you were dating a guy that had a low income and he saved up a grand to buy you a ring that would prove he's serious about you because it took him a lot of effort to do that. but this guy may have a lot of money already so a grand on the first date might be nothing to him ya know? you have to judge if he's serious by how he treats you0