I've been dating this guy for the past 2 months. We've been on four dates and have a fifth one planned for this weekend but I just don't know if he's as into me as he says he is? He never ever texts or calls or anything (I know he's not a phone kind of guy, he prefers seeing people in person) but even when I text him a question (like I did today) he never replies :/ I've asked him if he still wanted to keep seeing me because I genuinely don't feel he's that interested in me but he says he likes me and does want to see me again after dates we go on, but then he never talks in between the dates :/ He also goes out nearly every night with his friends so it's difficult for us to find time to have a date but when we do I feel he does like me. But then we go so long in between dates that I start to panic :/
I just don't know what to do :/ I know he's not seeing other people and I know he's not using me for sex because the only thing we've ever done is kiss. I'm 20 and he's 22 by the way.
Do you think I should give up on him? I don't want to, but the mixed signals are really messing with my head :/
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I would think that the best next step would be to talk to him again. Tell him how you felt when you wrote this-- that you want him to talk with you in between dates. He will either be all defensive (the "why are you so paranoid" speech) or he will apologize (probably with an excuse). Regardless he should correct his behavior from that. If he doesn't I would just give up on him. He doesn't seem fully committed.
I suggest talking rather than just giving up on him since it sounds like you still believe in him and want him to respond. It is possible he doesn't realize how cold he is actually being to you.
Well, that is my advice. If you need additional help, or I was unclear or misunderstood something, feel free to message me and I'll do my best to help.0