I think I'm over trying to keep it going with this guy. Grant it, he's got a lot going on and we have amazing chemistry, I am just getting tired of his inability to pursue me and make moves. I'm sad to say I'm to this point - even though I know he's a good guy that is extremely shy and intimidated by me - but I am done waiting and making moves. Is that a bad thing? Have you been in this situation before? What happened?
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I have and I have moved on.
I had a few very nice dates with a guy, we seemed to hit it off, we also cooked together and he spent the night a couple of times, he was respectful and basically a really great guy. But he was too slow/passive for my taste. When I noticed that it wasn't moving forward really, I asked him what was up. He didn't want to seem pushy...
See I don't have a lot of patience and honestly didn't feel like wasting another couple of months or more on "something" that is not going anywhere. I needed someone with the same temperament/character as mine. You know, you like it, you go for it. Simple.
So on that side we werent compatible, which would have brought problems in the future anyway.0