do you believe that in the dating world "you can't have it all"?
And when i say "you can't have it all" i mean you can't expect to meet/find a person that has everything you want in a person. For example if you want an attractive, smart, funny and outgoing person, you can't expect to find that person. You might find one, but the chances aren't that high.. so you meet an attractive person you should expect them to either me less smart that you would like to, or maybe not ass tall as you would like, or like the same things you are passionate about.. etc
Do you agree? do you think a lot of people expect to much sometimes from people?
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I saw a sign on the wall in an automotive repair shop: "Good. . . fast. . . cheap. . . you can select any two!" It's the same way with dating and relationships. The odds on meeting someone who is exactly what you want in every way are infinitesimally small. . . and maybe that wouldn't make for a good relationship. Part of what happens in relationships is the give and take, the compromising that we do because we love our partner.
In a good relationship, you may find that 10% of what your partner is all about is objectionable, but you're willing to tolerate it because you love the other 90% so much. And, your partner feels the same way about you.0