Okay, so this guy's I've been talking to told me I deserve better, he says he wants what's best for me and I know that means he doesn't like me that way etc. But I've asked him to tell me straight up, to tell me to leave and that'll be the end of it, but he says no. He says he doesn't what that, he wants me in his life, but also wants what's best for me. I don't know what he means and im so confused. What should I do? I've asked him to be clean and he keeps saying he doesn't know. He says he's scared of commitment and has trust issues, but I'm in love with him and he knows that. I need advice, help, I need something.
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Men have different means of expressing their insecurities. In light, he truly wants to be with you but does not feel adequate to provide you with what you are looking for, which shows a lack of confidence. Nothing wrong with that. I myself have been this way in the past, where I am truly enveloped in a girl and in a way use this self-pity response 'I'm not good enough' to determine whether or not the girl is wanting to continue pursuing me.
Be mindful of his history. If there is cause for concern down the road, it will be amidst those moments of struggle and hardship that your love towards one another will truly be tested.0