There's this shy girl and we have liked each other for quite some time. I finally gathered the courage to ask her out and we are going on a date soon. We've already hung out several times before so she's not too shy and nervous around me anymore. I'd love to hold her hand on our first date but I don't want to scare her off so that's why I'm asking for your opinion here now.
If I were to hold her hand, do you have any sweet ideas on how to do it?
Thanks a lot.
- Nope, I won't mind.Vote A
- Yea, I think that's too fast.Vote B
- I'd like it!Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
Every girl is different. Some dont mind at all. Some do (IE: me. I just think its way too early)
Initiate it and see what happens. If she gently moves her hand away or say something like, "Sorry I just dont feel comfortable doing that." then there u go. But if she doesn't move her hand away or look uncomfortable or say anything then
she doesn't mind. How can u do it you
asked? I know one guy just had his hand
close to mine while we were walking. His
hand didn't touch my hand but I still could
feel it there lingering and all lol then he finally held my hand. Or u can simply ask her. I've been asked before. To me either way is fine.
Ah enjoy your date!😄1