This sounds fucking nuts to me... I would go nuts. Anyone feel the same? I have to at least sleep with the girl to know we are sexually compatible. What do you think?
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Let's put it this way. If two people are marriage minded, they are likely checking each other for self control and the ability to be faithful to one another. In an ideal situation, They are testing each other to see if the other thinks they are worth the wait. So if someone does not have the morals enough to be faithful, They are going to run out on you and cheat with someone else. So what better way is there to test someone out than to see how long they can hold out? So if someone does not pass the time test, Then it should not be seen as a loss because they just got rid someone who will possibly cheat if things ever got tough..
This is the reason that many people choose to wait until marriage before anything intimate happens.1
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