Yeah its better to be with someone whos fun and happy for obvious reasons whether its a friendship or a relationship. Let's be honest tho looks matter (yes to women too I don't care how much they claim they dont) Maybe you dont have to be perfect but they matter a lot. People say confidence atttracts but it really doesn't. If your are confident but ugly you're still ugly (yes there are ugly people)
I want to know why people keep lying online about these things when we all clearly know it's all bullshit?
I mean like I said I know you dont have to be perfect but confidence alone won't make you attractive and yes I know confidenc eis GREAT thing to have to believe in yourself must be a great thing. I have very low self esteem and I want to know more about this. I get this comment thrown at me "ohh just be confident" blah blah it gets old really old and what good is it if I'm ugly as hell?
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People of all levels of attractiveness meet and fall in love. Yes, usually with people around the same level of looks, but it happens all the time.
Low self esteem and negativity, on the other hand, can erode every part of your life if it's not at a healthy place. Love, friendships, work, even health. They cause you to behave in ways that undermine success. I'm speaking from experience.
If you're talking about yourself, personally I'd say looks are not your problem. You look fine, but getting to a good place mentally and emotionally are absolutely necessary.0