This guy I like from work just texted me saying we should ale plans for Sunday if I don't have any already... So naturally I responded that I would love to but I'm out of town unfortunately ( which is true I'm not playing games). I left it at that because I don't like planning dates and hoped maybe he's ask if sometime this week works, but he never responded. Does he think I rejected him? I really like him how do I fix this without being aggressive and making all the plans?
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He probably left it at that and will wait til you come back. Right now your behavior could go either way. Either you were being truthful or you were trying to blow him off. If I were him I'd try one more time and if you somehow declined THEN I'd stop. But yeah, some guys may just take the first time as a spurn.
Next time let him know you're interested by giving him an option. Say you're busy on Sunday but you're cool for Wednesday night. It's not really you "making the plans" because he already asked you, you're just giving him an option.1