I have this friend. Sure she not perfect, no one is.
She is very sweet and nice-not judgmental, and also smart, but not a geek-you can just tell when you talk to her she is very intelligent with reading people, and in general she's smart. (She can be a little bit of a pushover, she isn't a toughie, actually. She's been taken advantage of by jerks before so she is learning to toughen up)
But she is very attractive-curvy like Kim K-not that "perfect" but similar body type
Looooong pale blonde hair
Big blue eyes and a pretty face
And just graduated law school
I've heard guys say "I would go for her but there is no way in hell she will want me so I won't"
Will guys be intimidated or put off by this?
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Nobody likes high maintenance bitches.
Your friend may be very different, but people can't know that without getting to know her sufficiently.
Of course they're stupid to judge her without knowing... in theory.. but in the real world we all know we all judge very quickly. It's a reflex. Everybody does it.
They will assume that because she may have a lot for herself, she will have very high standards and think (a bit too) highly of herself. It's very unlikely they will believe she's not judgmental towards people with a "lower" job.
So yeah, it can be a put off.0