I think it's time to cut things off. This has to be one of the balls-less males I've ever met. Grant it, he's a good guy and that's why I've put up with it as long as I have, thinking he'd come around. I have pulled most of the weight. The only time he has asked me out is when I mention I have made most of the moves, aside from asking him out. And, that time, he said it would be if he got done working on something. It wasn't a definite answer. I made other plans because I don't wait on people to make time for me and he hasn't asked since. I brought it up and he said he meant when we were both free (he wasn't) and asked me to let him know when I was free this week. That was 4 days ago. Haven't heard from him since. I don't want to be with someone who makes me feel like I have to mention spending time together or someone who always places the ball in my court... what should I do?
Only time he says he wants to take me out is when I mention that I'm doing all the work... what should I do?
What Guys Said 1
You're far more assertive than he is; unless he's just lazy (possible). Either way, things won't change if they haven't already. You've made your point and he's had time to consider it. I'm not the bravest guy in the world but have no problem carrying my weight when I'm dating. You're probably doing the right thing by moving on.0
What Girls Said 1
If u aren't happy with what's going on then you shouldn't b in that relationship. It's not fair that u feel u put it all the effort and caring. U deserve someone who will make u feel like they can't get enough of you :)0
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