So I met a girl on Tinder (she's 28 and I'm 33) and we had an awesome first date. I took her out to a blue grass concert. It was the first time for her and she really enjoyed the music. I got positive vibes from her the entire night. Our conversation flowed very well and I could tell from her body language she felt comfortable around me.
Although I was attacted to this girl for some reason I respected her enough to not move on her too quickly. I gave her a hug and a peck on the cheek at the end of the night. She did caress my arm a little bit. However I felt like it seemed it bit early to shove my tongue down her throat... lol.
Anyway the next evening I texted her up to see how she was doing. She told me great and I told her I was out with my friends at an engagement party. I did not invite her to do anything.
The following day I invited to go hiking/workout. She said she was already on her way to a national park (she's real outdoorsy). She was real kurt in her text message. I just responded "nice!" and nothing more.
Anyway I'm thinking I screwed up reaching out to her too quickly after the first date. For some reason I felt comfortable enough with this girl to respond sooner than usual. She I just hold off until she responds back?
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My god, ALWAYS go for this kiss on the first date. Are you her gay best friend or her lover?
"to shove my tongue down her throat" - a regular kiss which you should have initiated doesn't involve tongues.
At this point yes, I would let her contact you. If she's attracted to you and genuinely did enjoy the first date she'll contact you.
When she does ASSUME she wants to meet up and set up a definite date.0