First date we split cost of lunch.
2nd date I paid for concert tickets, he paid for a drink.
Will it make him not want to pay for future date?
Does it make me look desperate tht I paid and initiated both dates? My friends told me I shouldn't have.. And I felt bad. I just need to get some thoughts across the board. Will he not initiate and leave me to pay for it all if I am independently paying my way through dates?
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The important thing is what he does on the third date (and any other subsequent dates). Since you've paid for more than him at this point (assuming the concert tickets cost more than the drinks he bought), he should definitely reach for the check on the next date.
If he's not initiating dates and not paying for them, it doesn't necessarily mean that he's not into you, but it's also not a good sign. A dude who doesn't carry his weight financially will disappoint you in other areas of a relationship (emotional support, quality time, etc.).