So I'm a bodybuilder and have a physique and build that's turns heads everywhere I go. I've gone skinny to huge skinny to huge a couple times just due to life obligations. I've noticed that most girls end up leaving and losing interest as soon as I get skinny. It's reoccurring. Soon as i get back on my grind they are on my nuts again and I can have as. much sex as I want to. I've honestly thought about quitting bodybuilding just to meet a girl that likes me for me and then go back into it. Most very attractive girls late teens early twenties are all like this I swear. I try not to be the guy who uses and abuses women but it's difficult not to be jaded. I sont think my personality is flawed and I'm quite intelligent. I would like to think I'm a catch am I just having bad luck with women or attracting the wrong ones?
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Let me just put it this way, girls usually know if you only/mainly want sex. A lot of girls think this is the same for all guys (since, at least in my own experience, it's the same for *almost* every guy). Now, if a girl just wants sex, she's gonna be shallow about it, since guys tend to be (again in my own experience) shallow when it comes to girls, not in the sense of how they look but in the sense of not wanting to commit to a relationship, which is viewed as shallow. If a girl wants a REAL relationship, she won't be as openly flirty or try to hit on you as quick because she knows that if she does, she could easily end up having a one night stand, which is completely opposite of what she wanted.
Hope this helps0