How can I pick one? How do I know which one to pick?
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see how it goes with both of them for a Little while... as friends, or casual dating. If you haven't met one of them in real life yet (based on your response below), maybe try meeting him - it may be the case that you will not be attracted to him, even if he seems super interesting online. That has happened to me once, amazing chat chemistry and when we met in person, I saw this weak-chinned, moody grump of a man-child... felt like waking up in the wrong reality :D Try to hang out with both of them, ask them questions about the things that really matter to you, and then you will find out over time who is a better fit for you. For example, if you are religious, it might be important to you that your boyfriend will respect your beliefs, even if he doesn't share them. Good luck!1