Me and one of my friends were talking and she said girls have it a lot easier but I said no I think guys have it a lot easier .
So who has life easier?
When I say life I mean life in general; everything considered
- Girl31% (4)70% (7)48% (11)Vote
- Guy69% (9)30% (3)52% (12)Vote
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I voted A, but I'm not saying that girls have life in general entirely easier, both genders in life and society, culture, have their Pro's and Con's. Like what is easy for girls is hard for guys, but what is easy for guys is hard for girls, but the parts of life that girls have it easier are what I wish I had easier because I have been struggling since. When it comes to dating and relationships, boyfriend/girlfriend, that part in my opinion girls have it easier, like they have it initially easier since us guys have to make the first move and take the initiative, here is how I see it:
By nature girls and boys always see dating/relationships from different view points.
here's the breakdown though:
Girls in one aspect do have it harder----BUT only because they over analyze everything, and take everything personal, in escence they complicate things more, but they do it because we care(thats what a girl told me).
Guys have it harder because we are seen as the go getter's, initiators - we have to ask them out, we have to protect them(I don't mind that) - we must read minds - problem is most of us guys don't want to try hard enough.
it's all a matter of communication and will to make things work, if woman and men understood that I think things would be a lot easier, but most of the time woman are so emotional and men are so closed minded.
it works both ways, but I still think guys have it harder.
In reality, it is much more difficult for a man to meet a woman than it is for a woman to meet a man. Women are able to approach men and are also able to wait to be asked out. Men can not wait and rely on women to approach and ask for the date because men WILL NEVER BE ASKED OUT. Men have to do everything in order to get anything with a woman. Women have the god given right of never having to deal with rejection or incur any of the pain associated with it. When a man gets rejected he has to shrug it off and his friends would tell him to “be a man”. On the other hand, if a woman gets rejected, she would most likely take it as a personal insult on her inner child and her friends will comfort her. A woman is automatically accepted by society as a woman; whereas men have to prove themselves at every turn. A shy woman WILL get asked out without having to over come it. Men have to work more on themselves than women do. Men must have confidence, real self confidence, that is not based solely on how they look, but rather understanding and acknowledging their self worth in order to approach. Building up this type of confidence takes time and understanding.