I have a few mental health issues regarding my self esteem, the way I look and insecurities. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and he has two female friends one he talks to somewhat more than the other, Brittany the one he talks to the least between intervals loves the same thing he does he loves motorbike riding and the last time he saw Brittany they went for a ride together before he sold his bike, now don't judge me but I like to go through his messages just to see what he's been up to and for my own validation and comfort to know I'm safe and it's okay, I saw a few old messages from Brittany not very recent about a month and it said
brittany: wanna come over and watch movies or hang out or something?
drew (my partner): but I'm sick?
brittany: that's okay I don't mind
drew: but I don't wanna get you sick
then probably a newish message 2-3 weeks ago
brittany: hey! I miss you!! What's been happening
Drew: Awwwww :).. And he wrote more about what's been happening but that's all I remember
brittany sometimes asks how I'm doing and how are we together and drew says "yeah we are pretty okay how've you been"
i dont one know what to do I'm so jealous of that particular message that it's so silly it makes me feel so upset there are a few smiley faces and everything in there as well which makes me feel weird
I'm probably being stupid right
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You just have to trust him. Guys and girls have friends of the opposite sex and it is normal to do these things. Stop reading his messages because this will only make u feel worse. He is with u so just enjoy it and he would have been with this other girl rather than u if anything was going on. You look great and I'm sure he would agree so stop beating yourself up and give him your trust. If he's going to cheat then he will do it regardless if that's the kind of person he is. At the moment though u have no proof he has so just trust him and enjoy your time together. Believe in yourself more.0