I feel as guys we are expected to start everything like asking for dates or keeping the conversation going. Is it a societal expectation or is it more instinctive, like girls want a leader or something?
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This is the answer for why guys are called players when they sleep around. This is what going on in the dating world. Guys are responsible to ask the girls out, pay for the dates and protect her as much as he can. Where girls are supposed to be more picky (otherwise she's easy), girlish, modest, polite, etc... I hate all the double standards made by our society because I know it hardly changed.1